Commitment

Author : Athena Louise
As an on line psychic, most of the calls I get are in regard to relationships and commitment.
Callers want to know why, the person they are currently involved with is afraid of taking the relationship to the next step - a commitment.The main reason is fear. Fear the other person will give their heart and it will be broken. Fear they are making a mistake. Fear of marriage because they have seen too many marriages fail. So the question becomes how to overcome this fear that was instilled. The answer is simple - go back to the basics.Commitment - a pledge - a solemn promise. Marriage is a commitment too many people take lightly. Too many people get married on the spur of the moment and figure if it doesnt work out, oh well they can always get a divorce. That is not the way it is supposed to be folks.There are two reasons for a divorce. The first is abuse. No one has the right to abuse another person. No one. I do not care what excuse is given. The second reason for divorce is infidelity. The first time may be forgiven, but numerous times goes against the Laws we were given so many years ago.Some people think that living together is all right. They might be together for ten or twenty years and are committed to each other, but will not take that final step before the eyes of God. Some say - we are already married just do not have that little of paper to prove it. Others say - they love the person they are with but their spouse will not give them a divorce. I have news for you folks - this is fornication and this is definitely a sin in the eyes of The Master. He commanded we marry, not fornicate. If there are problems in a marriage, try to work them out, because as I said previously - there are only two reasons for a divorce in the eyes of the Great Spirit - abuse and infidelity. We do not get married for the good times only. It is not always fair weather ahead. We make a commitment for better or worse. There is no excuse to bail during the 'worse'.Other callers of mine have said they are in love with, and involved with a married person. This is absolutle wrong. They call a psychic to ease their guilty conscious. They want reassurance this other person will leave spouse and children to be with them forever. These callers say - I have the right to be happy in this life. Well then, find someone not already married to be happy with. To try to split up a family for your own wants is wrong and there is absolutely no excuse that can possibly be given to make this right. But I love this person does not cut it. Their spouse loves them also.This also applies to anyone living with another. To step between a couple in any type of committed relationship is wrong in the eyes of the Great One.We have a commitment either to the Laws given or to the Dark One. By trying to adjust the Laws for our own selfish ends is the first step into the power of the Dark One.athena_louisehttp://www.athenalouise.com
Keyword : commitment, infidelity, abuse, relationship,